OUTview mourns the loss of Joan Rivers and it was our friend, Tony Tripoli who introduced us. Tony has been part of the OUTview Family since 2010 and we were invited to cover his standup performance in August 2011 at LA's Celebration Theater. A special treat was both Melissa Rivers and her pal, Lynn were there to film a segment for the Joan Knows Best Reality show. I personally met Joan 3 times (2011, 2013, 2014) on the set of Fashion Police, even though I didn't get my sit down Interview with Joan, just by meeting her, you feel so connected to her. Tony had a special relationship with Joan, who thought as a mentor and friend and got teary eyed when speaking about her in that interview from 2011.
Gay rights activist and sex columnist Dan Savage, after being glitter bombed at the University of Oregon earlier this month, was yet again showered with sparkles in response to using transphobic language in his Savage Love column and on stage. This story has taken quite a few turns.
The Bilerico first reported the incident on November 14th, an article which Savage blogged, “actively and maliciously misrepresented” his remarks. On November 9th, Savage, who is on a tour of Universities for his upcoming MTV series, was speaking to an audience at the University of California Irvine. On his blog, Savage explains that he was answering a question from an audience member about her boyfriend who, in her words, “likes watching shemale porn.” In his response, Savage was reported to have used to problematic terms, “shemale” and “freaky tranny porn,” while also confirming that yes, the boyfriend in question was a freak. Savage has fired back to the allegations claiming, “I did say ‘shemale.’ I read the question as-written, repeated the term in my response, and then used ‘transsexual’ in place of ‘shemale’…modeling the use of less offensive terms.” He added, “I never used the phrase ‘freaky tranny porn.’ I never said the word ‘tranny’ at UCI at all.”He does admit to calling the boyfriend “a very freaky boy,” but apparently did not mean it negatively as he and his column are “pro-freak.”